Some people do not want your help.

“The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it” Proverbs 10:22, NKJV.

Here is understanding that can help you in life, if you receive it:

Some people aren’t ready to change.
Some people don’t want your help.

If you can understand these two things, you will save yourself a lot of time and heartaches. Like so many women in this world, you may be wired to fix things, fix people and try to make things better. You would probably bend over backward if you knew someone needed your help. But what do you do when they don’t want the help you are trying so hard to give? As frustrating as it can be, you must know when it’s time to move on and live your life.

There is no sense in exerting all of your time and energy, and spending all of your money on someone that doesn’t care anything about their own well-being. You can bring a horse to the water, but you cannot force it to drink. So many women are deeply depressed today because they gave everything to someone that could care less. They bought cars, houses, clothes and shoes for someone that didn’t want their help. Now their credit is all messed up and the man is gone out the door, the person is gone back on the streets, the relative ended up right back in jail, and the friend went back to the abusive relationship. When will we ever learn!?

Thank God we are wired the way we are, but we must know when to back off and let God do the fixing. Let Him do the changing. Let Him do the delivering and setting free. Bless them, encourage them and yes, keep on praying for them, but you go on and live your life! Go on and fulfill God’s plan for YOU! Put all of your energy, time and focus into making yourself better so you can live a well-balanced and fruitful life!

Now let’s pray: Wow, Lord. You know how to get my attention. I needed this word today. I have found myself trying to help people that do not want to help themselves. It’s frustrating and tiring. I give it all to You, and I place them in your hands. Only You can change their situation. Strengthen me. Replenish me. Restore what I gave away out of good intentions, and help me to move forward and live my life to the full. In Jesus name, Amen.

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32 thoughts on “Some people do not want your help.”

  1. Oh Yes indeed! 💁🙋 I have lived and I have learned!!!💯🎁🎉🎉🎉 Thank you SWEET JESUS👑👑👑 for taking the blinder off and guiding me along the way!!! 💝💝💝 hallelujah 🙌DOTK💐🌸🌷🌹🌻🌺💃💃💃👏👏💪💓💪🙏🙏🙏🙏

    1. This was written just for me, it is speaking directly to my heart, Thank you Jesus for this lesson. Lord Jesus I love you and I continues to need your grace and mercy, please help me to continue on the right road, I bless your precious name. Thank you Lord for all you do for your children. Amen.

    2. What a word, I know this to be true.. I see it now..Jesus let our hearts be open to those that need our help..thank you Lord

  2. What if Jesus gave upon you?
    What if Jesus got frustrated with us?
    What if Jesus hadn’t died?
    Jesus knows who to place in one’s life for a reason,
    I could go on with the list, but I feel this is enough when you already know the truth
    When Jesus is speaking
    Yes I’m missed judged by so many people’s opinions not what the Lord is saying, but take your burdens to Jesus believe me he will fix it I do think the Lord for whom he places in my life I’m so glad man didn’t make me because they. ,…….

  3. Thank you for speaking to me this morning i need to stop thinking i can save the world.that was a on time word.

    1. Daddy ❤Jesus ❤please Strengthen me. Replenish me. Restore what I gave away out of good intentions, and help me to move forward and live my life to the full. In Jesus name, Amen.❤❤❤❤

  4. Thank you Lord for this word you have for me today I feel it wholeheartedly thank you Lord for you are and who I am and thank you for your words I love you father in Jesus name amen:-)

  5. Amen. Trully speaking, some people can’t be helped and cared for. They have made up their mind to be difficult. May God help us.

  6. Goood…Moring Ladys DOTK I love this today’s word I say YES YES YES YES YES I SO TOTALLY AGREE with the massage the Prayer everything cause I’m a giver yall I LOVE To Give BUT I’m learning that as give I’m Planting Seeds and I Have to make sure i plant my Seeds in Good ground I need to no HOW TO PLANT WHEN TO PLANT WHAT TO PLANT. You see we as women we are inhaners God made us to take what he gives us and Multply it in the Wright way So that it can build his kingdom ALL over the world from wherever we are.And me personally I start at home with my kids geting rejected so i just Pray and ask God how to plant within them cause we Love our kids yall no matter how they are and act for now but we have to no and beleave that as we Pray they’re not going to stay that way. So may God Bless as usual and yall Ladys Have a Blessed Day

  7. Thank you Lord for your word that you have gave just morning I have gave them so much but I do remember who really loves me most and I think God for keeping me covered with his love and thank you for allowing me to live for me and to find myself in Jesus and The name of Jesus Amen Thank you God

  8. The last coupla days have hit home, and today is no different. Appreciate your sharing the Words so directly. Thank you and may the blessings of the Lord continue to flow over and thru you!
    So grateful!

  9. This is a powerful word from God, it speak to me, I’m a giver, a giver of my time, my money, and anything I have, but what I love about my Daddy, he showed me that I was Co-dependent, trying to fix everybody and their problems, I Learned real fast only God can fix us, Thank you God. I love you so much.

  10. Our Father continues to love, bless & confirm. I often question if I’m moving ahead of His will & then His word & messages confirm that ‘this is the way’. I am then aware that He is the way, the Truth & my life depends on Him & no one or nothing else. I love and thank you Jesus!

  11. Ohhhhhhh! I receive in the name of Jesus Christ! Thank you for this great post, which I desperately needed. Have a blessed day! 🙂

  12. Yes, some people dont need your help….. personal experience:a friend of mine lost her husband after a brief illness, all effort to help fell on cold attitude. I felt bad and diselusioned…. now i know i was just killing mysef giving what was not needed…. oh God help me to know where to chanel your love and help,i know someone out there is in need of your love and help through me…Amen… thanks to DOTK…….

  13. Just reading tbis devotional, it really really spoke to my heart and mind. I a daughter who neexs my help, but refuses to accept it. This message give tbe strength to be ok with it. I still love my daughter very much but, I have to let go.

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