Some people don’t want your help.

“The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it” Proverbs 10:22, NKJV.

Here is understanding that can help you in life if you receive it:

Some people aren’t ready to change.
Some people don’t want your help.

If you can understand these two things, you will save yourself plenty of heartaches. Maybe you’re like me, you are wired to fix things, to help things grow, to make things better. You would probably bend over backward if you knew someone needed your help. But what do you do when they don’t want it?

There is no sense in exerting all of your time and energy, and spending all of your money on someone that doesn’t care about their own well-being. You can bring a horse to the water, but you cannot force it to drink. So many women are deeply depressed today because they gave all they had to someone that could care less. They bought cars, houses, clothes and shoes for someone that didn’t want their help. Now their credit is all messed up and the man is gone out the door, the person is gone back on the streets, the relative ended up right back in jail, and the friend you tried to help went right back to the abusive boyfriend.

Listen, my sister, thank God you are wired the way you are, but you have to know when to back off and let God do the fixing. Let Him do the changing and let Him make the spiritual adjustments that you can’t see. Bless them, encourage them and yes, fervently pray for them, but you go on and live the life God has called you to live.

Now let’s pray: Wow, LORD. You know how to get my attention. I needed this word today. I have found myself trying to help people that do not want it. It’s frustrating, tiring and expensive. I give every person to You LORD. Only You can give them what they truly need. Help them to see Your light and understand Your love and plan for their lives. Now, i pray you strengthen me. Replenish me. Restore all that I’ve given away or purchased out of good intentions, and help me to move forward and live the life you’ve called me to live. In Jesus name, Amen.

19 thoughts on “Some people don’t want your help.”

  1. Thank you God for this encouragement devotion Oh God help me to move forward and live my life the way you called me to live and the name of Jesus Amen and Amen again ❤❤

    1. Thank you Lord I’ve given my best shot everybody doesn’t want your help even when you tried your hardest to help I needed this amen

  2. Amen..Amen..Amen!!!
    Whewww…AMEN!!!!
    We can give give people ALL the tools they need to do whatever it is they need to do, but if they chose not to use them..there is absolutely NOTHING else we can do but..give them back to The Lord & continue to Pray For them! I have soooo many splinters in my knees & my tear ducts are dry..I’ve done ALL I can (humanly possibly) do..except continue to Pray for their Deliverance & Wisdom to see the road back home to their Lord & Saviour Jesus Christ!
    Lord, Please Continue To Bless & Shine Your Light Of Love Upon Your Obedient Servant Sister Kesha, Her Awesome Team, This Amazing Ministry & My DOTK Sisters/Family💖!!
    Be Blessed, Stay Humble & Encouraged!!!
    Love Always, Your DOTK Sister In Christ, Wendy💕

  3. Wow! Thank you Lord for these words, I had decided to let go and put every thing that only you can change in your hands Lord. I will keep families and friends in my prayers and believe and wait for you to bring the change in there life’s Amen.

  4. Wow thank you for this word, i never thought about these two statements i always feel deep down that i can change people or that i need to help everyone that is in a situation and often times i get hurt or dissapoint in the out come but i still go back trying and the cycle begins all over again but i believe God is speaking to me today thank you so much.

  5. Oh yes Lord. You are the only one that can really change people. I’ve tried too and my heart has felt like it was broken In two. So now I give them to you, the healer, the restorer, the deliverer, the All in All. You Father, the Great I Am. Thank you precious Jesus. And thank you dear sister for always having a word from the Lord in due season.💜

    1. Peace & Blessings My Dearest Sister Lynne💖!!
      Here WE are once AGAIN..with our gentle, loving, wanna try & save the world (especially those that are close to us) hearts..only to be hurt, disappointed, out of some rainy day “stash cash” you REALLY didn’t want to use for this “rainy day” & BOOM…let down AGAIN!!…A hurt is a hurt..but..for me..it hurts deeper when it’s your child..& children are involved..but one thing I do know for sure..ALL OF OUR HELP COMES FROM THE LORD!! HE DIDN’T BRING US THIS FAR TO LEAVE US!! I’ve officially taken my hands OFF & turned her over/back to the Lord..He’ll work it out!!
      Love You Sis💕
      Thanks for reading/listening & continuing to keep US in Prayer!!

  6. Thank you this sound like me I have a calling on my life and it does frustrated me when I know things and no one seems to care and it happen. Pray For me to let go And Let Jehovah God Have full control in my life.

    1. Terri, I identify with you. You see, perceive the danger or spirit warfare trap, warn them, and they disregard the warning. Know this sister, if you warn them in love and gentleness what God reveals to you, you have been obedient and the responsibility is off your hands except to pray. It is not your burden to carry further. Blessings.

      1. Peace & Blessings Sister Alisa💖!!
        Amen..Amen..AMEN!!!
        I couldn’t agree with you more!!!
        We try & warn them before destruction..it’s like telling a baby don’t touch the stove it’s hot, it’ll burn you..but they STILL want to touch it..just to see for themselves..The Lord KNOWS I’ve been obedient in my warnings..so now I’ve turned it ALL over to Him.
        Love Always💕

  7. Good Morning Lady’s Daughter’s of The Most High King yes I so agree with this massage I’ve been there many time myself In my early stage of my Christian life but I’ve learned how to plant Good Seeds with good intentions but sometimes the Best seed to plant is to just back off nd just Intercede for them And since God did write the book on them too he no’s them better then they no themself Palms#139 says No Matter what we do in this life he no’s so if they choose up or down he still love them enough he’s there. So whether they are a relative a friend or just some1u no and care about We I say We cuz I still no people nd have relatives that I still try to encourage to come back to Church in Fix I have a niece I’ve been trying to encourage to get back in Church for a while now but she’s letting enemy though the drinks & weed tell that’s a better High(I No and some us All No)how that is nd goes cuz that’s where God brought me from The Devil told me Church will B Too Boring u need a High you’ve got to have a High. So yall what I do when my talking to them nd asking them seen to keep hitting that Brick Wall just continue to keep them in ur Prayers love u and Have a Blessed Day

    1. Peace & Blessings Sister Lillie💖!!
      That “weed” is a MONSTER!!! It creates such havoc & dismay it’s UNREAL!!! One of the main reasons is that it’s NOT real marijuana that they’re smoking these days..it’s mixed with soooo many other things..so they can get “higher” but they don’t realize the effects that it’s really having on them..long term..it’s really sad..we’ve got to Pray now more than ever before for this generation!
      Love Always💕

  8. Mable I thank I thank God for you and your family. Praise the father and for you all. I am truly blessed ❤️😍🙏💜I need a copy please. Love you all Forever

  9. I really needed this word. I have been doubting myself. There is some one I have to let go of and have been their support. I know that while I am in their life they have no need to change. This word is conformation that I needed. Thank you so much.

  10. Thank you, thank you, thank you I believe the LORD wanted me to have these timely words, may GOD continue to bless and guide you and all that you do, every blessing.

  11. There are times God will give me an assignment. I did and said everything that God places on my heart to do and say. And I will continue to do that. But I have learned that some people didn’t want my help. I was not their preference in spite of the fact I was sent by God to help play a part in them achieving their purpose. I learned some people are not willing to change for God regardless of what the Word of God said. Some people you can’t tell anything to. They will not listen, not even to God. God taught me a lesson: The Grace to Let Others Be. That is a real good lesson for all of us to learn.

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