Trying to get him saved.

My sister, who are you trying to get saved so that you can marry him? What baby Christian are you trying to help grow in Christ so you can make him your baby’s daddy? Yes, these questions are direct and in your face for a reason. Many Christian women are falling for worldly men. These men carry the fragrance of the world and you trying to convert him doesn’t help at all. When you do this, you show that you care more about yourself than him. If you really cared about his spiritual well-being, leave him alone while God works on him and grows him up–just he and God alone. He’s not interested in salvation, my sister, he’s interested in your panties. Yes, he will come down to the altar, lift his hands, and say a prayer just so that you can hush with all the “Jesus talk” and give him some. He will invite you over to have Bible study, then ask you to stay the night.

Many of our sisters are sitting in counseling sessions today because they married a worldly man and now it is their greatest regret. They are messed up because the worldly lifestyle of their husband is rubbing off on their kids. They can’t get him to go to church and he won’t pray. He won’t take the lead as head of the home. He won’t do anything pertaining to God and they are at their wits end. It breaks God’s hearts to see us behave this way. Please stop being so desperate. Value yourself enough to wait on the man God has for you. He will be what you need wrapped in what you want. He will have the lifestyle that matches his convictions. He will love God more than you and will treat you like the precious jewel you are. Yes, the bed may feel lonely at night and yes, you may have to raise your babies alone for a while, but nothing is worth destroying your life and losing your peace of mind over. It would be wise to leave the imitation alone and wait for God to give you the real thing.

“Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness?” 2 Timothy 6:14, NLT

Prayer: Father, I trust you that you know what’s best for me. Help me not to compromise, but wait for the man you have for me. I know you love me and because you love me you will bless me with a husband. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

21 thoughts on “Trying to get him saved.”

  1. I know. But, I liked this person before I was saved and hope to meet him one day. I honestly think he’s meant to be a youth pastor but is running from his calling! I pray for him but it’s hard to watch from a far like this…

  2. I’m using Psalm 25:1-2
    “To You, O LORD, I lift up my soul. O my God, I trust in You; Let me not be ashamed; Let not my enemies triumph over me.”
    as my scripture in praying for a husband. I’m in later years of life and don’t need to waste any on worldly things; I am waiting on God to bring us together. I want my storerooms of blessings to be empty when I arrive in heaven! I can only accomplish this with God’s grace and help.

  3. What if it’s already too late? I have already married an unbeliever and seriously dealing with the consequences. :(((

    1. My sister, God loves you and He forgives you.

      At this point this scripture right here needs to be applied: “In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands [subordinate, not as inferior, but out of respect for the responsibilities entrusted to husbands and their accountability to God, and so partnering with them] so that even if some do not obey the word [of God], they may be won over [to Christ] without discussion by the godly lives of their wives…” 1 Peter 3:1, Amplified.

      It’s going to be the most trying time of your life but if you honor God’s word, He will honor you.

  4. Praise be to God!! Thank you Jesus & Holy Sprit! This is right on point 💯 % Truth! Forgive Father for wasting 3 yrs, with a Man that never wanted take me to altar! I humble myself to you & I receive your truth from this devotion! Bless you Tesha & Team! Such peace over me has come! Please bless the rest of my sisters, give them wisdom from you & your disarmament! Again you’ve giving me confirmation. Enough is enough!

  5. Wow! Speaking directly to me! Thank you for this devotional app- it always resonates . God is good all the time! Praide HIS precious name. Thank you Lord for hearing my thoughts and hearts and always sending reminders that you are WITH me. Hallelujah

  6. 🙌🙌🙌Thank you DOTK Family for this subject that helps many. I’m thanking God in this moment that I know He knows what is best for me as I am learning to trust Him and know who I am in Him. Waiting on God, knowing that I don’t have to compromise or bend my standards because I’m learning my worth in Jesus Christ. Knowing the one He has for me isn’t going to move me further from Jesus Christ, but uplift me, encouraging my walk in Christ. This is something that needs to be talked about with the girls, teens, young ladies, as well as our older generation to “Know Our Worth in Jesus Christ!” ✝️✝️✝️❤️❤️❤️🛐🛐🛐

    Praying because I know there is nothing to hard for God. As the husbands are given up to God, He can restore the marriage only if both are willing to work on it, not just one partner. It’s what God’s has in-store for many. Always looking to The Word!

  7. Well said and on time! Real, raw and straight to the point, we need that too sometimes!

    Confirmation! I will wait on you Lord 🙏🏾

  8. Hello! I’m not understanding this line “ Yes, the bed may feel lonely at night and yes, you may have to raise your babies alone for a while”. Why would my bed be lonely? Won’t my husband and I both be in prayer ? Why would I be raising my kids alone?

  9. Hello

    So what do I do know that I am married to a worldly man. Yes he does not pray,to church or make time for the word. I knew what wrong,but married him any way. How do I make it right? With God?

    1. Keep praying and believing that God will touch his heart, and be a good submissive wife, as long as he’s not abusive(emotionally, physically)or habitually cheating on you with other women there’s no reason to complain, there are good men that don’t go to church but you can’t save him but you can plant seeds and allow God to water them, God is still with us even when we make the wrong choice. God bless hope this helps

  10. Yes Lord & Amen, it’s worth living single/celibate i tried it and love it since 2016, I used to be where some of you are until I realized I have a full and wonderful life without a man, it’s nice to focus my energy towards God and whatever I want to do, God knows your desires and yes it may take a minute but wait anyway, I know waiting is hard for some, you start to wonder if it’s ever going to happen well jn keeping it real it may not and that scares a lot of women but keep on believing and being faithful to God…He’s so much better than having a husband ijs

  11. Most important thing I would say to women. DO NOT even consider involvement with an unbeliever. Disobedient to God’s word and absolutely will bring problems and heartache. This devotional is so very true. Been there, done that and learned that lesson the hard way. God loves me and I am trusting Him for any future husband.

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