When our kids were younger, they enjoyed building tents or forts in our living room made of blankets, pillows and furniture. I remember one day my daughter went to her brothers and asked, “Why aren’t you guys helping me build the tent?” She felt upset that they continued to play and didn’t seem interested at all. After several pleas for help, she gave up and started to pout. I explained to her, “When it comes to guys you can’t be vague. You have to let them know exactly what you need help with.” They didn’t mind helping, she just had to be more specific. So she went again to her brothers, “Guys, I need your help building the roof of the tent. Can you help me?” They all followed her into the living room to help her build the roof and complete the tent.

Guys are designed by God to help build things, fix things and make things better, all they need to know is specifically what you need help with. Instead of getting frustrated with the men in your life because they’re not helping you in ways you need them to, be more specific.

18 thoughts on “#WisdomNugget”

    1. That’s funny, my youngest son (37) reminded me of that, when I wanted his dad to do something and he didn’t respond, and my son told me that I had the wrong approach. He suggested that I be more specific with his dad and tell him, what I needed him to do. Much to my surprise, I tried it and it work !!! Must be a Man’s thing !!

    2. I enjoy reading these messages daily. They are on point in my life. Thank You and may the Holy Spirit continue using you to bring the messages for His daughter’s, amen

  1. Thank you. ..Jesus for be with me in this moment, where my life it’s all confused, I need you I can’t do this by my self..help me to take this pain out my heart,and forget people’s has hurts me ,and forgive me for all sin,with me a puro heart,I want to be humble for rest to my life…………Jesus be with me…..Always. …..AMEN…..

  2. Thank you Lord for you alone know the heart of men and can perceive it. Teach me Hoy Sirit the right approach that I wll pursue without resistance.

  3. God is good all the time, all the time God is good. And all this time I wondered why my husband didn’t understand. This is the second day on your devotional page, thank you Lord for reading me here. God has found this lost sheep and guided it back to the right path. Thank you Jesus.

  4. Amen! I needed this!!! Thankyou dot-k. (Servanto of the LORD), Ministrie. Thankyou for editing teaching and admonishing the WORD Of GOD In Our Hearts to Us, “Daughters of the KING” the Church. May GOD Continue to pour out HIS Blessings Upon you and your Ministrie, Thank YOU LORD JESUS for YOUR LOVE, for Blessing us into this Ministrie Daughters of The King We LOVE YOU Dear LORD JESUS!!! We LOVE You DOTK ministrie in “JESUS CHRIST” Mighty Glorious Name ” Amen!!! ALOHA MAHALO And GOD BLESS!!!!!!!

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  6. This devotion helps alot of Females because some of us do not know how to explain to a male what our need really means and helping and the household and other needs sometime we just have to sit down and explain it all to them awesome devotion

  7. I don’t have brothers and didn’t know that guys work differently. this is great info… will help me be more patient with my husband 🙂

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  9. This really spoke in an area of my struggle with a person in which I have very strong feelings for. I am not with this person in whom I had previous 5 year relationship. This spoke volumes to my present struggle. Thank you to all you women here who post and pray for these messages.


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