Your worth and your identity is in Christ!

“Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock.” Matthew 7:24-25

Years ago when a friendship I thought was for life ended, I was completely devastated. It felt like my whole world had fallen apart, and I didn’t know what to do. I went into the darkest depression I had ever experienced and almost lost my mind. Immediately God began the work of helping me understand who I am in Him. I found everywhere in the Bible where it said, “in Him,” “in whom,” “through Him,” and “through Christ,” and I listened to those Scriptures on a recording in my sleep and all throughout the day for months. So fast forward years later, another friendship that I thought was a lifetime friendship ended, and although it shook me and hurt, my understanding of my identity in Christ helped give me a rock-solid foundation that caused me not to fall to pieces like the first time.

In life, I’ve learned how to bless people when they come and bless people when they go. There are relationships we hope will last until Jesus returns, but the reality is every relationship won’t last a lifetime. We accomplish our mission in each other’s lives, we fulfill our purpose for that friendship, learning from that person what the friendship was designed to teach us, and then that chapter ends, and we move into a new beginning. It has taken me 40 years to get that, but I got it, praise God! I have learned that my identity is not in my marriage, not in my children, not in a friendship or anything else. My worth and my identity is in Christ!

I hope you are listening to me, sister. If you allow your husband, your children, your ministry, your accomplishments, or material things to define you, you will be completely devastated if those things are no longer in your life. I need you to focus on who you are in Christ. Read and reread. Listen and listen again to God’s Word telling you who you are in HIm. With or without things or people, you are still a daughter of the King; you are still accepted into His family, you are still intensely loved by Him!

Prayer: When everything changes around me, Lord, help me know and understand that nothing has changed about who I am to you and who you are to me. I am still called and chosen for your purpose and plan. You have given me a hope and a bright future and I thank you! In Jesus’ name, Amen.

(Read Matthew 7:24-27; Ephesians 2…the whole chapter)

Listen to the “Who I Am in Christ” audio on our Daughters of the King devotional app.

17 thoughts on “Your worth and your identity is in Christ!”

  1. Amen Thank you Father God 🙌🏽🙏🏽

  2. Help us father where you see we need help, help us to truly be grounded and rooted in you, in every way and everything🙏 thank you for this word.

  3. 🙏🏼GLORY2GOD❤️
    Yes We are indeed Daughters of THE KING! Thank You so much for this Daily dose of encouragement! May JEHOVAH Bless You abundantly in JESUS’ precious Name! 😇

  4. I am so great full to Our Father’s love and His guidance that He gives to each of us. I thank you for your obedience to God. Many blessings to you today!!

  5. Lord, I thank You for new beginnings. Thank You that my identity is in You and that although things and/or people my change or leve. You never do. Thank for never leaving or forsaking me. I love You, Heavenly Father. In Jesus’ name.

    Blessings, Shalom and Agape.

  6. THANK YOU LORD for my Identity is wrapped up in You. THANK YOU for letting no one define me but You.
    Always keep us rooted and grounded in You.
    Keep our Hearts and Minds constantly going after You❣️
    💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  7. Amen Sister, holding on to people that were just meant for that season and not moving on causes conflict.. It keeps you stuck instead of moving forward. My past is not coming into my future.
    God Bless You! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  8. Amen Kesha, this blessed me. Confirmation regarding two doors that were closed a week ago. I like what you said about blessing people when they walk in and blessing people when they walk out. I’m moving forward to my new beginnings and new normal. God makes all things new and will give me beauty for ashes. I’m excited ladies for what God has for us in our future! Daughters of the King is truly a blessing and platform for the healing process. Bless you Kesha and keep shining my sister! Your posts are timely and it’s as if God is using you as an instrument to give me His Rhema word to confirm that I’m heading in the right direction. Thank You Daddy!

  9. Once again, THIS spoke directly to a current situation that has left me feeling hurt and confused. THANK YOU for allowing the Holy Spirit to use you to touch our hearts. To God be the GLORY!

  10. Thank You!! For that word of confirmation!! The Lord Jesus is doing great things in life!! New victories, New Peace thst psssed all undestandon, A healing processing of depressions , Restoroing relationship among family members. He is doing great things my live. And have be greatful and give him all the praise in Jesus name!!

  11. Whenever I start feeling sorry for myself or down on myself, the Good Lord leads me to your words of wisdom Sister Kesha…as He did today. A gentle reminder to continue reading your lessons & studying His Word. Thank you Dear Lord & Sister Kesha. May Almighty God have mercy on us all ❤🕊🙏

  12. AMEN Thank YOU my LORD FATHER GOD.” In JESUS Name Amen ❤⚘❤⚘❤⚘❤⚘❤⚘❤⚘❤⚘❤⚘❤

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