He can use you no matter what.

“I have no husband,” she replied. Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true” John 4:17-18, NIV.

I gave my life to the Lord in my early adulthood, but that did not prevent me from making some gruesome mistakes in my life, especially in relations to men. I have divorced not once, but twice, both of which have not been my proudest moments. It has caused me to measure myself to those fortunate ones, who have had more sense than me in their lives. I felt belittled, like I failed and was basically damaged goods in the eyes of the Lord. I felt like someone with a bright future, but who stumbled greatly and was now doomed to live the rest of my life as an under achiever.

The Lord began to talk to me about the woman at the well of Sykar. She too had many men in her life and was living with one who she was not married to. He reminded me how she met Jesus on the hottest time of the day. Feeling ashamed to meet any other villagers and most likely feeling belittled, failed and like damaged goods. God told me that He knows what we have gone through in our lives and that He is not seeing us as little, failed or damaged. We don’t have to be born-again Christians for decades without having made any mistakes, in order for Him to use us in a powerful way.

Just as He used the woman at the well of Sykar to minister to the whole village, He can use you to reach a multitude of people for His glory. All you need to do is to be honest in the presence of the Lord, not hiding anything. He sees it anyway. Be honest and thirsty for Him. Your experiences are what makes you who you are. They are what makes you able to reach those people that the Lord has set before you.

Prayer: Father God, thank You that You see us through the blood of Jesus, whole and made righteous through Jesus. I thank You that You are able to use us even in the middle of our twisted circumstances and with all our faults. I thank You that we don’t have to measure ourselves to others just to be in Your presence. Thank You for the freedom to simply be who we are in Christ. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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21 thoughts on “He can use you no matter what.”

    1. Even In the midst of severe aloneness the presence of God is felt in my life…for every mountain, thank you, for every Valley, if I never had a problem..I would have never known..God can solve them and use my testimony…in the midst…THANK YOU…

  1. Amen let him use you where you are let him take your experiences in life and share them to help others.be willing to be open and honest without fear of judgement he can and will use you he can and will use your story

    1. My husband just asked me for a divorce yesterday. Said he has fallen out of love with me. And just isn’t happy anymore. My heart has been broken. And this message has uplifted me this morning. I have been fighting for our marriage for a long time now. but have begun to feel ashamed at what my family and friends will say because we looked so happy. Your message has reminded me of God’s promises. What he sees in me is truly all that matters. Thank you.

      1. Jenesi,
        It’s not over yet. I’m praying for God to put love in your husband’s heart and for him to see you through the eyes of Christ that he may be reminded of his love for you. I’m praying for him to have restless night until he seeks God and sees the error of his ways. And may God bring you peace sister in this storm. I’m praying for you.

        1. Sisters🙋I’m standing in the Gap❗ 🙏🙏🙏Father God, let this Union💍 find a common ground…🙏where love heal all wounds❗ 💓Lord, We know that by Your Sweet Mercy all things are possible❗❕💕💯In Jesus Mighty Name, Amen❗💞💖💜💪💘💪💌Big holihugs Queen👑 AgapeLove💌

  2. Thank you!! for the post today it touch me like myself I am in a situation like that, please pray for me thanks for the comment they touch my life as well thank you. I thank God for the daughters of the king website

  3. Amen let His will be done. Thank you DOTK for this word, just yesterday a sister remainder me of my woeful past and even called me a big sinner who God can’t even listen to my prayers as they are noise in His ears. May almighty God continue to use you DOTK your msgs are always right on time.

    1. Shame on that person , who brought up your past , The Word says that once u confessed Jesus as your Savour that all things have past away and all things b come new. That means that past things He remembers no more , so He 4 gave u who she. She must b feeling very small n side her self 2 want 2 try and put down another sister. She is obviously a hater , so sister keep letting your Light so shine and maybe she will catch on.The devil will use anybody he can, sister laugh at the devil wen he trys it again. I bet u will make the devil made and the person he uses. Sister hold your Head up high. And keep your Faith. It’s just a test of your Faith. WIN

  4. Thank you Jesus for this word, Thank you that you can use me to your GLORY In Jesus Name Amen 🕇

  5. SO MANY OF US THINK GOD CAN NOT USE US. BUT THAT A TRICK OF THE EMENY. ALL THINGS ARE NEW . HOLD YOUR HEAD UP AND WALK ON. GOD ALL WAYS GET THE GORLY. THANK YOU DOTK😆😊😆😊☺

  6. I absolutely love the way you are transparent in your message! God bless you DOTK! Thank you Father for this word from on high,it has truly ministered to my soul!!!In Jesus Name!!!Amen

  7. Thank you so much for the holy spirit using you to reach us at our most troubled times. May we be the good soil that hears this and reaps the harvest in Jesus Name. Amen

  8. I am feeling so wounded right now and I just want to thank DOTK and everyone who uses the medium. I seek the prayers of the believers over my children’s lives. I have a boy and a girl and my husband is teaching especially my son to be hateful and disrespectful towards me. Help me nullify the enemy’s plan and save my children. I feel so wounded right now BUT God!!!!

  9. It’s in those moments when your at your lowest God always shows up. Thank you for your words of hope

  10. THANK YOU DAUGHTERS OF THE KING. THIS IS MOST DEFINITELY ME TODAY IN MY LIFE. I NOW ASK THE LORD TO USE ME TO HELP SOMEONE ELSE ALONG THEIR JOURNEY IN JESUS NAME AMEN. I HAVE DAUGHTERS AND GRANDDAUGHTER’S. HELP ME JESUS!

  11. Your sentence ” It has caused me to measure myself to those fortunate ones, who have had more sense than me in their lives” is me, exactly what I do to myself all the time. I can’t figure out why I’ve made such stupid decisions! I got married at 19 and at 29 he informed me he didn’t love me and my sister told me how he’s tried to sleep with her for years. A double heartbreak, I don’t think my heart will ever heal. Then once divorced I had sex outside of marriage and got pregnant and had my first child with a man with already had kids. Should’ve been the happiest day of my life to have a child but my new husband really didn’t want our child and has never treated him equally. I see other friends and family who have babies and their husband rejoice and it breaks my heart that I’ll never know what it’s like to have a child with someone who loves us. Why did I allow this? God turn my mess into a message.

    1. “God turn my mess into a message.”

      Amen to that and He certainly will. Praying for you and your family. God Bless you xxx

  12. Amen & Amen❗ 🎁💝🎉I Do BELIEVE❗🙋💃💯✔✔✔ hallelujah❗❗ I LOVE YOU👏SWEET JESUS👑👑👑& I LOVE the way YOU DO WHAT YOU DO 💘EVER LOVING FATHER❗ 📝📖🙌🙏🙏🙏THANK YOU for the FREEDOM to be simply💞who we are IN YOU JESUS😘😘😘🆓🎁💝🎉🎉🎉💎DOTK🌷🌺🌹THANK YOU😘I get sooooo excited when I come to your app!!!👑👑💃💃💃💪💜💪I 👉LOVE YALL❗ 🌞AGAPELOVE😘💌

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