My sister, your worth and your identity are in Christ!

“Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock.” Matthew 7:24-25

I remember years ago, a friendship I thought was for life ended, and I was devastated. I went into the darkest depression I had ever experienced and almost lost my mind. Immediately, Holy Spirit went to work, helping me understand who I am in Christ. I found everywhere in Scripture where it said, “in Him,” “in whom,” “through Him,” and “through Christ,” and I listened to those Scriptures on a recording in my sleep and all throughout the day for months. Fast forward years later, another friendship ended that I thought was a lifetime, and although it shook me and hurt, my understanding of my identity in Christ helped give me a rock-solid foundation that caused me not to fall to pieces like the first time. Holy Spirit then rolled up His sleeves again and went to work, teaching me how I am complete in Christ. Every heartbreak resulted in powerful teaching and understanding I wouldn’t have received had I not grown through it.

My sister, you can decide whether you will go through it or grow through it!

In life, I’ve learned to bless people when they come and bless them when they go. There are relationships we hope will last, but the truth is every relationship won’t last a lifetime. We accomplish our mission in each other’s lives, fulfill our purpose for that set time, and learn what the friendship was designed to teach us. Then, that chapter ends, and we move into a new beginning. I’ve learned my worth and identity are not in my marriage, not in my children, not in my friendships, or anything else. My worth and my identity are in Christ, and I am complete in Him!

I hope you are hearing me, my sister. If you allow your husband, your children, your ministry, friendships, or anything else to define who you are, you will be completely devastated if those things are no longer in your life. God needs you to understand who you are in Christ. He needs you to know on a deep soul level that you are complete in Him. I encourage you to read and reread. Listen and listen again to God’s Word telling you who you are in Him. What you are in Him. How you are in Him. Where you are in Him. With or without things or people, you are still a daughter of the King, approved and accepted into His family, and deeply loved by your heavenly Father!

Prayer: Thank you, Father, for speaking to my heart. I hear you. Help me understand who I am in you and who you are in me. Plant my feet on a firm foundation. Let my soul be anchored in you no matter who comes or goes. Thank you, Father, for loving me so deeply. I receive it. Help me not only go through life, help me grow through it. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

(Read Matthew 7:24-27; Colossians 2:10; Ephesians 2…the whole chapter)

12 thoughts on “My sister, your worth and your identity are in Christ!”

  1. Amen thank you for the devotions this morning. Praise God I really need it. God bless your ministry.β™₯οΈπŸ™πŸΎ

  2. IT IS FINISHED! He is mighty to save!!!
    On Christ the solid rock I stand all other grounds are sinking sand!
    He is the
    cornerstone (foundation)
    capstone (covering)
    keystone (completion)
    He revealed this same message to me this morning in my devotional time! CONFIRMATION πŸ™ŒπŸ½

  3. Amen! Amen! and Amen!!! This is one of my favorite scriptures, and when it caught my eyes and ears with me growing in His Word. It started helping me to grow and build my life more on His Word to strengthen my inner man!!! His Word is “LIVING” and as you hear and apply, because it’s rich to get us rooted and grounded in Him. Which takes us on the journey to bring perfected through Him. πŸ›πŸ›πŸ› I went through the same type of devastation when my son left home and that’s when I started to seek even more, for only God could heal that hurt. That’s His Love.❀️❀️❀️

    Sister Kesha this oneπŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯. It really spoke to my heart because I have made the choice to grow and to receive all the lessons to be dressed-up to be “FRUITFUL and MULTIPLY!” Knowing I’m being perfected. Thank you πŸ’•πŸ’πŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’πŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’πŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’πŸ’œ

  4. Yes, the Lord will never leave or forsake me. I can trust Him, knowing that He who has begun a good work in me will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ’s coming. Thank you. Blessings, Shalom and Agape πŸ‘€πŸ™πŸ½β€οΈπŸ“–πŸ™ŒπŸ½

  5. This is just what I needed also! I feel like I just won the lottery….looking forward to searching and knowing where these scriptures are will help me with my new chapter. People have told me I have to go through this grief but last few weeks I find I’m growing in Him and I do accept His peace!
    Thank you Jesus!

  6. Powerful Powerful Word Of God!!!!! Thank You K For Sharing….May God Continue To Bless You And Yours As You Continue To Bless So Many Of Us ❀️❀️❀️

  7. Such an amazing confirmation of what God has been guiding me through these past few years. Lots of tears and heartache, but God has been my Rock and my Reedemer, my Cornerstone, my LORD OF LORDS, MY KING OF KINGS, my OMNIPOTENT,OMNIPRESEBT GOD.

  8. Beautiful word it’s a bless to know our true worth and identity is in Christ only and our friendships marriages and how we raise our children this speak so so much volumes to me and knowing that God as friendships that he as for us people he needs for us to put in our our lives and vice versa this truly bless me 100% because I struggle in one of these area and I know in that God is alway with me and teaching me most all he strengthening me because where my weakness is and knowing that where I am weak, his strength is made perfect in my weaknesses, and to always guard my heart is Thanks for the encourage and uplifting I really need that love your lovely sister in Christ a daughter of KING (KING JESUS CHRIST)πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπŸ™πŸ™

  9. Well said bless the Lord, truly my soul rejoice in Him I needed this pacific word. πŸ’œπŸ™‡πŸ½β€β™€οΈ

  10. Thank you, Sister Kesha, for sharing such a deeply personal experience & your God-given wisdom. This is a most profound message. May all of God’s children feel blessed & may He also grant us peace β€οΈπŸ™πŸ•ŠπŸ˜Š

  11. In JESUS Name Amen Thank You Amen ❀⚘❀⚘❀⚘❀⚘❀⚘❀⚘❀⚘

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