You should never have to look too far to know if someone really loves you. It’s clear based on how they treat you. If you find yourself making excuses for abusive, unfaithful or immoral behavior, and saying to yourself, “They really love me deep down inside.” No, they don’t love you. Real love is obvious. Love is an action word that shows in our behavior. It’s not buried deep down somewhere in the abyss of someone’s heart never to be shown. It’s not something you have to strain your eyes in order to see a speck of hope. Someone either loves you or they don’t. In many relationships, this is the harsh reality that couples face. They come to the realization that their companion does not love them. As heartbreaking as this could be, it’s a truth that needs to be exposed and admitted to before they go any further.
For a woman, the root of her anger is not that a man cheated on her or that he abused her, but that he truly do not love her. The same holds true for a man. The root of his anger is not that you slept with another man or abandoned your family to chase some fantasy. The true root of his anger is that you really don’t love him.
The best way to know real love is to discover it in God. When you learn His love, you’ll be able to see it in others.
How does He love us? The Bible says, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:1-13
Only the Lord can put this kind of love is someone’s heart. He plants His love in our heart and it produces visible fruit in our lives.
Prayer: Father God, I thank You for Your wisdom and knowledge to discern real love. Help me to know real love when I see it and not make excuses for behavior that is not right. Bless me Lord. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
18 thoughts on “Real Love is Obvious”
You know I came across the DOTK when I was going on a trip to Florida to visit my 91 yr. old father who we has lost my dear mother not long ago. I was trying to eliminate carrying many books for devos. and I found you…I have been so blessed since to read your timely and encouraging words and all the different input of the ladies and to be able to pray for each other. Bless you all for your Godly love…Thank you precious Jesus♡
Lord Thank you for sending me the wisdom of real Love give me the Love of Jesus and the truth of My Love Oh Lord Blessed me and the name of Jesus Amen
This is on point for me I was in a a relationship for a year we stopped talking 3 months ago I thought it was just him finding himself found out today hegot married hurt yes but I am praying that God will bless me with somebody that will love me for me and not use me stand in prayer with me please
Unfortunately if it’s your husband And he really doesn’t love you it’s not grounds for a divorce.
Good Moring Sister Veronice my last marrage I truely believe he Loved me before we marred after we marred and even now that we’re devoured I fell that What Distroyed our marrage was that he was and still is(I keeps him in my Prayers even Now) a Draunkard he drink far too much still do and then we had NO COMMUACATION without COMMUACATION Any relasonship will fail. (Just say for example you had a friend and yall stop talking yall would drift apart) Cause he was and still is a soft hearted person he was a giver for the average part of the time depending on who it was or what the situation was he’s a big hearted person his Bark was always worst then his bit.Love you Have a Blessed Day
Father thank you for showing me true love not only tru your words but how you’ve shown me truout my life forgive me when I don’t share that love for give the people that haven’t shown me true love let your mercy and love rule my life you are most wonderful in Jesus name
This is a sad truth when you really love someone and you find out that you don’t matter to them that really hurts badly! !
Yes Debbie I found out to b so true we married he told me he was in love with me I was with him all went whole for a month I doubted his salvation but he convinced me he was saved WELL NO WAY VOULD HE BE SAVED AND TREAT ME THE WAY HE DID GIVING THANKS AT THE TABLE FOR THE GOOD EAS IN HIS EORDS ( NOW DO IT THING,,,-) IF I DARE PRAY THANG JESUS FOR MORE THAN THE FOOD. HE MADE ME STOP MANY STORIES I COULD SHARE HE WOULD MAKE ME STOP READING THE BIBLE WHEN HE WAS AROUND FINALLY AFTER 6+ MONTHS WR PARTED I I went back to my home STATE in pa and my wonderful son n wife took me in *** I LEFT EVERY THING BE HIND I WAS SEARCHING FOR LOVE BEING A WIDOW OVER 8 YRS NOW WE WERE NEVER LEGALLY SEPARATED OR DIVORCE D WE ARE TALKING ABOUT A COUPLE THAT SHUD OF KNOW BETTER I WAS 77 he 83 now 1 + 6 months later he passed away this past 2 weeks with cancer I went to the State he lived in .went to hospital and helped take care of him. Why I asked my self?? Because GOD prompt me to be a wife in the last yes of his days yes with God’s love he MADE away !! I as .many times before gave him the plan of salvation .I will never know for sure if I will see him in Heaven until I get there THANK YOU GOD YOU MADE AWAY OF ESCAPE FOR ME AFTER HE THREATENED TO SHOOT HIS CATS MY DOG. ME AND HIM SELF JUST NEVER GIVE UP HOPE PRAYERS WERE WITH ME ALSO .GOD MY SAVIOUR WAS AND IS WITH ME THANKS FOR LUSENING PART OF MY HEALING PROCESS THANK U DOTK AMEN ROSE
Yes very true, I find knowing what real love is hard
Thank you God for this word today. Thank you for loving me and help me how to love others as you LOVE ME. In Jesus Name Amen.
This message was truly a blessing. It is confirmation to me being on the right track. Thank you. Yes, Jesus love me for the Bible tells me so. Please do not stop encouraging and inspiring. We all need it. Blessings…
This is an awesome message. One thing that as a Christian we should know is that Love describes our master Jesus Christ and he asks as to as people living in Love so that those has not seen Him will see Him in us. God bless you for being a disciple of Christ.
LOVE! LOVE! LOVE!` GOD is LOVE!!!!! …. whoever is in Christ has His love and can give for we can only give what we have…. or how do we explain a situation where a man has a wife with children but always come back late at night, more than 4months no sex with the wife, always in the chatroom, time for baby’s dedication, he says no money, wont want the woman to do anything that can bring income for her, yes!he is providing the fees,the bills, …… i did not meant to go this far but this platform has help me…….. my broken heart had been mended, my wounds healed, iam restored….. just to know that….. someone up there loves me……DOTK…..I LOVE YOU………
I know you are thinking, how is she copping? Is the word of God that can sustain a woman who felt unloved…. iam praying for him and God kept assurring me of his change.. resently as i was interceding for him, iwas directed to jh9v19. Sister…mmmmm perhaps some one out there is battling with unfaithful hubands, never feel unlove, your husband loves you,, fight the spirit of adultery and not your husband,, our weapons of warfare are not carnal but mighty to the pulling down of stronghold….mmmmm i have just ministere to myself….
I am 58 years old and marrying for the first time this Sunday! After many long years of asking and waiting, God has blessed my life with a wonderful man to be my partner in life. 1 Corinthians 13 speaks to our relationship and will be read at our wedding as we are surrounded by family and friends . God is good!
This devotional is so timely. I to have a husband with a cocaine addiction, pills, and he stays out all night sometimes. It breaks me down BUT GOD. We have 3 children and a grandson on the way. We have been married for 14 years. Some days I lose hope that things will ever change because it hurts me so bad how he is allowing Satan to destroy this family. Please keep me in your prayers.
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It’s a blessing when I find ur app,it’s really incredible continue to do the work of the lord