Because of all the hell my sister had been through in a painful and abusive relationship, I encouraged her to be with a man we both knew did not know the Lord. He was a nice guy, and I was happy to see her with someone who cared for her, didn’t abuse her, and loved her. Was happy to see her happy for a change. Well, it didn’t work out, and God lit me up, and I had to repent to Him and to her for giving her ungodly counsel. She forgave me and expressed her love for me, and I’m thankful. My sister, I know. You want her to be happy, but you’ve got to trust that God’s got her. Don’t give her ungodly counsel. Don’t tell her to be with anyone you wouldn’t marry. We have no business encouraging anyone to do anything that goes against God’s word just because we feel for them. Trust God. He will bring into her life His choice for her in His perfect timing. Until then, pray for her and encourage her to give herself completely to the Lord. Encourage her to throw herself into her purpose, focus on raising her children, and keep growing as a woman and in her relationship with Jesus. He’s got her!